{"id":2753,"date":"2023-08-13T16:55:01","date_gmt":"2023-08-13T16:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/?p=2753"},"modified":"2023-08-13T20:45:46","modified_gmt":"2023-08-13T20:45:46","slug":"how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/","title":{"rendered":"How Does a Narcissistic Mother Behave? Dealing With a Narcissistic Mother &#8211; The Impact and How to Heal"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_55 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\" role=\"button\"><label for=\"item-66fa7729a1060\" ><span class=\"\"><span style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input aria-label=\"Toggle\" aria-label=\"item-66fa7729a1060\"  type=\"checkbox\" id=\"item-66fa7729a1060\"><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Dealing_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother_The_Impact_and_How_to_Heal\" title=\"Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother: The Impact and How to Heal\">Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother: The Impact and How to Heal<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#What_are_the_Signs_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\" title=\"What are the Signs of a Narcissistic Mother?\">What are the Signs of a Narcissistic Mother?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#1_You_Feel_Like_an_Extension_of_Her\" title=\"1. You Feel Like an Extension of Her\">1. You Feel Like an Extension of Her<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#2_She_Exhibits_Symptoms_of_Narcissistic_Personality_Disorder\" title=\"2. She Exhibits Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder\">2. She Exhibits Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#3_She_Overshares_Private_Information_About_You\" title=\"3. She Overshares Private Information About You\">3. She Overshares Private Information About You<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#4_She_Neglects_Basic_Parental_Duties\" title=\"4. She Neglects Basic Parental Duties\">4. She Neglects Basic Parental Duties<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#5_She_Disrespects_Boundaries\" title=\"5. She Disrespects Boundaries\">5. She Disrespects Boundaries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#6_She_Uses_Manipulation_and_Gaslighting\" title=\"6. She Uses Manipulation and Gaslighting\">6. She Uses Manipulation and Gaslighting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#7_Your_Failures_and_Success_Are_Seen_as_Reflections_on_Her\" title=\"7. Your Failures and Success Are Seen as Reflections on Her\">7. Your Failures and Success Are Seen as Reflections on Her<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#8_She%E2%80%99s_Highly_Competitive_with_You\" title=\"8. She\u2019s Highly Competitive with You\">8. She\u2019s Highly Competitive with You<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#9_She_Plays_the_Victim\" title=\"9. She Plays the Victim\">9. She Plays the Victim<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#10_She%E2%80%99s_Emotionally_Volatile\" title=\"10. She&#8217;s Emotionally Volatile\">10. She&#8217;s Emotionally Volatile<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Damage_Narcissistic_Mothers_Can_Inflict\" title=\"The Damage Narcissistic Mothers Can Inflict\">The Damage Narcissistic Mothers Can Inflict<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Low_Self-Esteem_and_Lack_of_Identity\" title=\"Low Self-Esteem and Lack of Identity\">Low Self-Esteem and Lack of Identity<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Emotional_Instability_and_Problems_with_Relationships\" title=\"Emotional Instability and Problems with Relationships\">Emotional Instability and Problems with Relationships<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Depression_and_Anxiety_Disorders\" title=\"Depression and Anxiety Disorders\">Depression and Anxiety Disorders<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Guilt_and_People-Pleasing_Tendencies\" title=\"Guilt and People-Pleasing Tendencies\">Guilt and People-Pleasing Tendencies<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Attachment_Issues\" title=\"Attachment Issues\">Attachment Issues<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Difficulty_Trusting_Themselves_and_Others\" title=\"Difficulty Trusting Themselves and Others\">Difficulty Trusting Themselves and Others<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Addiction_and_Other_Risky_Behaviors\" title=\"Addiction and Other Risky Behaviors\">Addiction and Other Risky Behaviors<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-21\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Physical_Health_Problems\" title=\"Physical Health Problems\">Physical Health Problems<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-22\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Healing_from_the_Impact_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\" title=\"Healing from the Impact of a Narcissistic Mother\">Healing from the Impact of a Narcissistic Mother<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-23\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#1_Seek_Therapy_or_Life_Coaching\" title=\"1. Seek Therapy or Life Coaching\">1. Seek Therapy or Life Coaching<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-24\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#2_Practice_Self-Care_and_Self-Parenting\" title=\"2. Practice Self-Care and Self-Parenting\">2. Practice Self-Care and Self-Parenting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-25\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#3_Set_Firm_Boundaries_with_Her\" title=\"3. Set Firm Boundaries with Her\">3. Set Firm Boundaries with Her<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-26\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#4_Grieve_the_Idealized_Mother_You_Didn%E2%80%99t_Get\" title=\"4. Grieve the Idealized Mother You Didn&#8217;t Get\">4. Grieve the Idealized Mother You Didn&#8217;t Get<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-27\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#5_Build_a_Surrogate_Family_of_Supportive_Friends\" title=\"5. Build a Surrogate Family of Supportive Friends\">5. Build a Surrogate Family of Supportive Friends<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-28\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#6_Learn_to_Validate_Yourself\" title=\"6. Learn to Validate Yourself\">6. Learn to Validate Yourself<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-29\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#7_Release_Anger_and_Resentment\" title=\"7. Release Anger and Resentment\">7. Release Anger and Resentment<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-30\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#8_Realize_Her_Shortcomings_Aren%E2%80%99t_Your_Fault\" title=\"8. Realize Her Shortcomings Aren&#8217;t Your Fault\">8. Realize Her Shortcomings Aren&#8217;t Your Fault<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-31\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#9_Be_Gentle_with_Your_Inner_Child\" title=\"9. Be Gentle with Your Inner Child\">9. Be Gentle with Your Inner Child<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-32\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#10_Become_Who_You_Truly_Are\" title=\"10. Become Who You Truly Are\">10. Become Who You Truly Are<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-33\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Different_Types_of_Narcissistic_Mothers\" title=\"Different Types of Narcissistic Mothers\">Different Types of Narcissistic Mothers<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-34\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Classic_Narcissist\" title=\"The Classic Narcissist\">The Classic Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-35\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Covert_or_Vulnerable_Narcissist\" title=\"The Covert or Vulnerable Narcissist\">The Covert or Vulnerable Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-36\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Maternal_Narcissist\" title=\"The Maternal Narcissist\">The Maternal Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-37\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Spiritual_Narcissist\" title=\"The Spiritual Narcissist\">The Spiritual Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-38\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_VictimMartyr_Narcissist\" title=\"The Victim\/Martyr Narcissist\">The Victim\/Martyr Narcissist<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-39\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Stealth_or_Inverted_Narcissist\" title=\"The Stealth or Inverted Narcissist\">The Stealth or Inverted Narcissist<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-40\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Narcissistic_Mother%E2%80%99s_Impact_on_Daughters_vs_Sons\" title=\"The Narcissistic Mother&#8217;s Impact on Daughters vs Sons\">The Narcissistic Mother&#8217;s Impact on Daughters vs Sons<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-41\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#For_Daughters\" title=\"For Daughters\">For Daughters<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-42\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#For_Sons\" title=\"For Sons\">For Sons<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-43\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Coping_When_Your_Narcissistic_Mother_Attempts_to_Control_or_Impair_Your_Success\" title=\"Coping When Your Narcissistic Mother Attempts to Control or Impair Your Success\">Coping When Your Narcissistic Mother Attempts to Control or Impair Your Success<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-44\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#The_Impact_of_Growing_Up_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother_on_Adult_Relationships\" title=\"The Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother on Adult Relationships\">The Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother on Adult Relationships<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-45\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Difficulty_Trusting_Partners\" title=\"Difficulty Trusting Partners\">Difficulty Trusting Partners<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-46\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Tolerating_Unhealthy_Behaviors_in_Relationships\" title=\"Tolerating Unhealthy Behaviors in Relationships\">Tolerating Unhealthy Behaviors in Relationships<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-47\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Lack_of_Relationship_Role_Models\" title=\"Lack of Relationship Role Models\">Lack of Relationship Role Models<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-48\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Poor_Communication_Habits\" title=\"Poor Communication Habits\">Poor Communication Habits<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-49\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#People-Pleasing_and_Poor_Boundaries\" title=\"People-Pleasing and Poor Boundaries\">People-Pleasing and Poor Boundaries<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-50\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Isolating_from_Others\" title=\"Isolating from Others\">Isolating from Others<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-51\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Passive-Aggressiveness\" title=\"Passive-Aggressiveness\">Passive-Aggressiveness<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-52\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Fear_of_Vulnerability\" title=\"Fear of Vulnerability\">Fear of Vulnerability<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-53\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Self-Esteem_Issues_Leading_to_Bad_Relationships\" title=\"Self-Esteem Issues Leading to Bad Relationships\">Self-Esteem Issues Leading to Bad Relationships<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-54\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Tips_for_Setting_Boundaries_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother\" title=\"Tips for Setting Boundaries with a Narcissistic Mother\">Tips for Setting Boundaries with a Narcissistic Mother<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-55\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#How_to_Safely_Go_Low_Contact_or_No_Contact_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother\" title=\"How to Safely Go Low Contact or No Contact with a Narcissistic Mother\">How to Safely Go Low Contact or No Contact with a Narcissistic Mother<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-56\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#How_Narcissistic_Mothers_Use_Guilt_and_Manipulation_to_Control_Adult_Children\" title=\"How Narcissistic Mothers Use Guilt and Manipulation to Control Adult Children\">How Narcissistic Mothers Use Guilt and Manipulation to Control Adult Children<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-57\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Exaggerating_or_Feigning_Illness_or_Victimhood\" title=\"Exaggerating (or Feigning) Illness or Victimhood\">Exaggerating (or Feigning) Illness or Victimhood<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-58\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Threatening_to_Cut_Off_Financial_Support\" title=\"Threatening to Cut Off Financial Support\">Threatening to Cut Off Financial Support<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-59\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Nagging_and_Criticizing\" title=\"Nagging and Criticizing\">Nagging and Criticizing<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-60\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Comparing_Siblings_or_Friends_Unfavorably\" title=\"Comparing Siblings or Friends Unfavorably\">Comparing Siblings or Friends Unfavorably<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-61\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Ruining_Important_Events\" title=\"Ruining Important Events\">Ruining Important Events<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-62\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Spreading_Lies_and_Rumors\" title=\"Spreading Lies and Rumors\">Spreading Lies and Rumors<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-63\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Gaslighting\" title=\"Gaslighting\">Gaslighting<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-64\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Bargaining_and_Dealmaking\" title=\"Bargaining and Dealmaking\">Bargaining and Dealmaking<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-65\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Hoovering\" title=\"Hoovering\">Hoovering<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-66\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Signs_You_Were_the_Scapegoat_or_Golden_Child_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\" title=\"Signs You Were the Scapegoat or Golden Child of a Narcissistic Mother\">Signs You Were the Scapegoat or Golden Child of a Narcissistic Mother<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-67\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Signs_You_Were_the_Scapegoat\" title=\"Signs You Were the Scapegoat:\">Signs You Were the Scapegoat:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-68\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Signs_You_Were_the_Golden_Child\" title=\"Signs You Were the Golden Child:\">Signs You Were the Golden Child:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-69\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#How_Sons_of_Narcissistic_Mothers_Struggle_with_Relationships_and_Setting_Boundaries_as_Adults\" title=\"How Sons of Narcissistic Mothers Struggle with Relationships and Setting Boundaries as Adults\">How Sons of Narcissistic Mothers Struggle with Relationships and Setting Boundaries as Adults<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-70\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/#Confronting_a_Narcissistic_Mother_About_Her_Toxic_Behavior_and_Its_Impact_on_You\" title=\"Confronting a Narcissistic Mother About Her Toxic Behavior and Its Impact on You\">Confronting a Narcissistic Mother About Her Toxic Behavior and Its Impact on You<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Dealing_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother_The_Impact_and_How_to_Heal\"><\/span>Dealing with a Narcissistic Mother: The Impact and How to Heal<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_are_the_Signs_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\"><\/span>What are the Signs of a Narcissistic Mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_You_Feel_Like_an_Extension_of_Her\"><\/span>1. You Feel Like an Extension of Her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers see their children as extensions of themselves, rather than as separate individuals with their own identities. They may try to control their child&#8217;s interests, friends, career choices, and other life decisions.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_She_Exhibits_Symptoms_of_Narcissistic_Personality_Disorder\"><\/span>2. She Exhibits Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some typical symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Grandiose sense of self-importance<\/li>\n<li>Fantasies of unlimited success, power, beauty, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Belief they are special and unique<\/li>\n<li>Sense of entitlement<\/li>\n<li>Exploitation of others<\/li>\n<li>Lack of empathy<\/li>\n<li>Envy of others<\/li>\n<li>Arrogant behaviors<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_She_Overshares_Private_Information_About_You\"><\/span>3. She Overshares Private Information About You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><a title=\"Narcissistic Mother Traits- Signs \u2013 How to Cope and Deal\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mother-traits-signs-how-to-cope-and-deal\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Narcissistic mothers<\/a> may discuss inappropriate private details about their child&#8217;s life with others, violating boundaries. This serves their need for attention.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_She_Neglects_Basic_Parental_Duties\"><\/span>4. She Neglects Basic Parental Duties<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Though narcissistic mothers may shower their child with praise at times, they often fail at providing true emotional nurturing. Their own needs come first.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_She_Disrespects_Boundaries\"><\/span>5. She Disrespects Boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers do not respect their child&#8217;s boundaries. They may barge into rooms without knocking, snoop, and feel entitled to any information they want.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_She_Uses_Manipulation_and_Gaslighting\"><\/span>6. She Uses Manipulation and Gaslighting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers are highly skilled at using manipulation, guilt trips, bullying and other tactics to exert control. Gaslighting is also common.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Your_Failures_and_Success_Are_Seen_as_Reflections_on_Her\"><\/span>7. Your Failures and Success Are Seen as Reflections on Her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Rather than being supportive, narcissistic mothers see their child&#8217;s accomplishments as well as failures as a reflection on themselves. This leads to lack of empathy.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_She%E2%80%99s_Highly_Competitive_with_You\"><\/span>8. She\u2019s Highly Competitive with You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Many narcissistic mothers compete with their daughters in unhealthy ways, especially when it comes to beauty, male attention, etc. Achievements are seen as threats.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_She_Plays_the_Victim\"><\/span>9. She Plays the Victim<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers are constantly looking for sympathy by exaggerated or even false claims of illness, grief, depression, etc. All for attention.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_She%E2%80%99s_Emotionally_Volatile\"><\/span>10. She&#8217;s Emotionally Volatile<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The emotional state of a narcissistic mother can shift dramatically from loving to angry and vice versa. Children learn to walk on eggshells.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Damage_Narcissistic_Mothers_Can_Inflict\"><\/span>The Damage Narcissistic Mothers Can Inflict<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Being raised by a narcissistic mother can lead to lifelong issues for her children, even extending into adulthood. Here are some of the common effects:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Low_Self-Esteem_and_Lack_of_Identity\"><\/span>Low Self-Esteem and Lack of Identity<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children of <a title=\"Narcissist\u2019s major Weaknesses and Insecurities \u2013 The Complex Personality Trait of Narcissism:\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/narcissists-major-weaknesses-and-insecurities-the-complex-personality-trait-of-narcissism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissists often lack independence and personal<\/a> identity, as their mother aggressively asserts herself into every aspect of their lives.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Emotional_Instability_and_Problems_with_Relationships\"><\/span>Emotional Instability and Problems with Relationships<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children raised by narcissistic mothers tend to struggle regulating emotions as adults, and have chaotic relationships themselves.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Depression_and_Anxiety_Disorders\"><\/span>Depression and Anxiety Disorders<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Studies show children of narcissists are more likely to suffer from mood disorders like depression and anxiety. Effects can be long lasting.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Guilt_and_People-Pleasing_Tendencies\"><\/span>Guilt and People-Pleasing Tendencies<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers use guilt to manipulate their children. As adults, these children often become people-pleasers with poor boundaries.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Attachment_Issues\"><\/span>Attachment Issues<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The lack of maternal nurturing can make it difficult for children to form secure attachments as adults, whether with friends or romantic partners.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Difficulty_Trusting_Themselves_and_Others\"><\/span>Difficulty Trusting Themselves and Others<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children of narcissists grow up constantly doubting themselves and others, as their reality and emotions are constantly questioned.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Addiction_and_Other_Risky_Behaviors\"><\/span>Addiction and Other Risky Behaviors<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children of narcissists have higher rates of addiction as the emotional instability leads them to &#8220;self-medicate&#8221; with drugs, alcohol, risky sex, etc.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Physical_Health_Problems\"><\/span>Physical Health Problems<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Studies show children of narcissistic parents have more chronic health issues, autoimmune diseases, slow healing, and pain problems.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Healing_from_the_Impact_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\"><\/span>Healing from the Impact of a Narcissistic Mother<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>While growing up with a narcissistic mother leaves deep scars, the good news is recovery is absolutely possible. Here are some tips:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Seek_Therapy_or_Life_Coaching\"><\/span>1. Seek Therapy or Life Coaching<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Working with a professional can help you understand narcissism, unpack childhood wounds, establish boundaries, and rebuild self-worth.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Practice_Self-Care_and_Self-Parenting\"><\/span>2. Practice Self-Care and Self-Parenting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Give yourself the nurturing your mother didn&#8217;t &#8211; whether long bubble baths, leisurely nature walks, or simply speaking kindly to yourself.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Set_Firm_Boundaries_with_Her\"><\/span>3. Set Firm Boundaries with Her<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Limiting or cutting off contact with a narcissistic mother to protect yourself may become necessary. Expect sabotage.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Grieve_the_Idealized_Mother_You_Didn%E2%80%99t_Get\"><\/span>4. Grieve the Idealized Mother You Didn&#8217;t Get<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to grieve the loss of the loving maternal relationship you deserved, so you can move forward.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Build_a_Surrogate_Family_of_Supportive_Friends\"><\/span>5. Build a Surrogate Family of Supportive Friends<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Find a chosen family of close friends, partners or relatives who become the supportive, loving family you should have had.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"6_Learn_to_Validate_Yourself\"><\/span>6. Learn to Validate Yourself<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Rather than seeking your mother&#8217;s validation, practice validating yourself &#8211; be your own cheerleader. Celebrate your worth.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"7_Release_Anger_and_Resentment\"><\/span>7. Release Anger and Resentment<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Holding onto anger and bitterness over childhood wounds only hurts you more. Find healthy ways to process the anger.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"8_Realize_Her_Shortcomings_Aren%E2%80%99t_Your_Fault\"><\/span>8. Realize Her Shortcomings Aren&#8217;t Your Fault<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Accept that her dysfunction, emotional absence, lies, or criticisms stem from her disorder &#8211; not from you being unworthy.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"9_Be_Gentle_with_Your_Inner_Child\"><\/span>9. Be Gentle with Your Inner Child<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Learn to comfort yourself as you would a frightened child &#8211; with compassion and reassurance that you are lovable.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_Become_Who_You_Truly_Are\"><\/span>10. Become Who You Truly Are<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Shedding the false image your narcissistic mother imposed can reveal the authentic you. Embrace your unique gifts and talents.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Different_Types_of_Narcissistic_Mothers\"><\/span>Different Types of Narcissistic Mothers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There are different subsets of narcissistic mothers, which can make them harder to identify:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Classic_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Classic Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This type matches the stereotypical image of narcissism &#8211; self-absorbed, arrogant, jealous, lacks empathy, etc. They are more openly abusive.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Covert_or_Vulnerable_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Covert or Vulnerable Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Covert narcissists share the same core <a title=\"Narcissist\u2019s major Weaknesses and Insecurities \u2013 The Complex Personality Trait of Narcissism:\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/narcissists-major-weaknesses-and-insecurities-the-complex-personality-trait-of-narcissism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">traits<\/a> as classic narcissists, but present as warm and selfless. Their manipulation is subtle.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Maternal_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Maternal Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This type derives narcissistic supply from their image as perfect, devoted mothers. Their mothering is all for show, however.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Spiritual_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Spiritual Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Spiritual narcissists use religion or spiritual practices to boost their egos and sense of superiority. Their spirituality is performative.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_VictimMartyr_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Victim\/Martyr Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This type portrays themselves as long-suffering victims in order to garner sympathy and attention &#8211; often using their children.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Stealth_or_Inverted_Narcissist\"><\/span>The Stealth or Inverted Narcissist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Inverted narcissists downplay their own desires and needs, elevating their partner\u2019s instead. Their narcissism is channeled outward.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Narcissistic_Mother%E2%80%99s_Impact_on_Daughters_vs_Sons\"><\/span>The Narcissistic Mother&#8217;s Impact on Daughters vs Sons<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The effects of being raised by a narcissist mother differ somewhat between daughters and sons:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Daughters\"><\/span>For Daughters<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Heightened rivalry and competition with the narcissistic mother<\/li>\n<li>Damage to self-esteem and body image<\/li>\n<li>Distorted views of femininity<\/li>\n<li>Greater chance of developing <a title=\"Signs of Codependency \u2013 Codependent behavior \u2013\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/codependency\/signs-of-codependency-codependent-behavior\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">codependent behaviors<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Sons\"><\/span>For Sons<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Emotional incest: parentification and being the mother&#8217;s surrogate partner<\/li>\n<li>Weak sense of identity and lack of boundaries<\/li>\n<li>Fear of relationships and intimacy issues with partners<\/li>\n<li>Confused sexual orientation<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Accepting your assigned role allows for greater understanding. Neither the scapegoat nor golden child escaped unscathed from the dynamics with a narcissistic mother.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Coping_When_Your_Narcissistic_Mother_Attempts_to_Control_or_Impair_Your_Success\"><\/span>Coping When Your Narcissistic Mother Attempts to Control or Impair Your Success<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It\u2019s common for narcissistic mothers to try diminishing their child\u2019s accomplishments, success, happiness &#8211; or anything that takes attention away from the mother. Some strategies for coping include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Become financially and emotionally independent from her<\/li>\n<li>Limit information about your achievements and life details<\/li>\n<li>Create physical distance if possible<\/li>\n<li>Establish firm boundaries<\/li>\n<li>Build a support system apart from her<\/li>\n<li>Expect and prepares for sabotage or undermining<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Don\u2019t internalize her attempts to make you small &#8211; her tearing down of others is a clear reflection of her inner damage.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Impact_of_Growing_Up_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother_on_Adult_Relationships\"><\/span>The Impact of Growing Up with a Narcissistic Mother on Adult Relationships<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Children who grow up with narcissistic mothers often experience lasting difficulties with trust, communication, boundaries, and intimacy in their adult relationships. Some patterns include:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Difficulty_Trusting_Partners\"><\/span>Difficulty Trusting Partners<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Being raised by a narcissistic mother who is unpredictable, inconsistent, and emotionally manipulative can lead to an inability to fully trust romantic partners. Adult children of narcissists often wait for the other shoe to drop.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tolerating_Unhealthy_Behaviors_in_Relationships\"><\/span>Tolerating Unhealthy Behaviors in Relationships<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>When raised by a narcissist, a child learns to tolerate mistreatment and <a title=\"Emotionally Unavailable Partner\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/emotionally-unavailable-partner\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">emotional unavailability<\/a> in relationships, perceiving it as normal. They <a title=\"Why Are Codependents Always Attracted To People Who End Up Hurting Them\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/codependency\/why-are-codependents-always-attracted-to-people-who-end-up-hurting-them\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">end up attracting<\/a> similar partners.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lack_of_Relationship_Role_Models\"><\/span>Lack of Relationship Role Models<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Without parental role models, children of narcissistic mothers often struggle with building healthy relationships themselves, whether with friends or significant others.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Poor_Communication_Habits\"><\/span>Poor Communication Habits<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children learn communication patterns from their parents &#8211; narcissistic mothers model exploitative, aggressive, or avoidant communication styles.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"People-Pleasing_and_Poor_Boundaries\"><\/span>People-Pleasing and Poor Boundaries<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>People-pleasing and weak personal boundaries are common for children of narcissistic mothers. Saying no may feel &#8220;selfish&#8221;. This leads to bad relationships.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Isolating_from_Others\"><\/span>Isolating from Others<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Some coping tactics like avoiding relationships, emotional dissociation, etc. can ultimately keep children isolated, exacerbating issues.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Passive-Aggressiveness\"><\/span>Passive-Aggressiveness<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers discourage assertiveness. Their children&#8217;s built-up resentment often manifests through passive-aggressive remarks or behavior.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Fear_of_Vulnerability\"><\/span>Fear of Vulnerability<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Children of narcissists often fear emotional intimacy in relationships. Vulnerability left them feeling too exposed to childhood <a title=\"How To Handle Narcissistic Abuse\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/how-to-handle-narcissistic-abuse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic abuse<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Self-Esteem_Issues_Leading_to_Bad_Relationships\"><\/span>Self-Esteem Issues Leading to Bad Relationships<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>The lack of self-worth narcissistic mothers instill can cause their children to stay in abusive dynamics, believing they are unworthy of healthy love.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tips_for_Setting_Boundaries_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother\"><\/span>Tips for Setting Boundaries with a Narcissistic Mother<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>To protect emotional well-being, it\u2019s essential to set firm boundaries with narcissistic mothers. However, resistance should be expected. Strategies include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Identify your limits and deal-breakers. These might include: no critiquing your parenting or appearance, no sharing private info, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Brace yourself before speaking up. She will likely retaliate the first few times with guilt trips, gaslighting, aggression or threats.<\/li>\n<li>Respond calmly and stick to your boundaries if she rages or cries. Be prepared to end conversations.<\/li>\n<li>Consider writing a letter clearly spelling out your boundaries for future reference.<\/li>\n<li>Accept that you can&#8217;t control or change her reactions &#8211; only reinforce what you will no longer tolerate.<\/li>\n<li>Having witnesses like a therapist or partner present can strengthen your resolve if confronting a narcissistic mother.<\/li>\n<li>Be prepared to go low or no contact if she refuses to respect your boundaries. Prioritize your well-being.<\/li>\n<li>Seek support from others who understand <a title=\"How To Leave A Narcissist Or Abuser\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/how-to-leave-a-narcissist-or-abuser\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic abuse<\/a> when faced with sabotage or backlash after setting boundaries. Don\u2019t cave in.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Safely_Go_Low_Contact_or_No_Contact_with_a_Narcissistic_Mother\"><\/span>How to Safely Go Low Contact or No Contact with a Narcissistic Mother<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Limiting contact with a narcissistic mother is often necessary for self-protection. But narcissists perceive abandonment as the ultimate threat to their egos. Expect severe backlash. Strategies for safely going low or no contact include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Consult a mental health professional before making any big decisions regarding contact.<\/li>\n<li>Make low contact gradual at first, so the decrease seems less disruptive or personal.<\/li>\n<li>Give her neutral or vague reasons for your limited availability that don\u2019t invite drama, like being busy with work.<\/li>\n<li>Create physical distance between you and your mother before going low\/no contact if possible.<\/li>\n<li>Set up a separate phone number, email or post office box that she\u2019s unaware of for necessary contact.<\/li>\n<li>Let close friends and your partner know you\u2019ll be unavailable to head off attempts at manipulation through them.<\/li>\n<li>Be aware she may retaliate by trying to turn family members against you or even pursue legal action. Prepare documentation.<\/li>\n<li>Consider blocking her on all social media, phones, etc. to limit her ability to harass you.<\/li>\n<li>Communicate any final decision to go no contact clearly in writing. Reiterate your boundaries and the consequences of violating them.<\/li>\n<li>Accept that grief and guilt are normal, but stay resolute. Honor your right to protect yourself, even from family.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_Narcissistic_Mothers_Use_Guilt_and_Manipulation_to_Control_Adult_Children\"><\/span>How Narcissistic Mothers Use Guilt and Manipulation to Control Adult Children<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers exert control long into their children\u2019s adulthood through emotional manipulation, guilt and other tactics. Some examples include:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Exaggerating_or_Feigning_Illness_or_Victimhood\"><\/span>Exaggerating (or Feigning) Illness or Victimhood<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers fake medical crises or portray themselves as victims to trigger guilt, force contact, or sabotage their child\u2019s plans.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Threatening_to_Cut_Off_Financial_Support\"><\/span>Threatening to Cut Off Financial Support<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Financial control is a powerful tactic narcissistic mothers can wield over their adult children. college funds, inheritance or other support is threatened if the child doesn&#8217;t comply.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nagging_and_Criticizing\"><\/span>Nagging and Criticizing<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers persistently criticize and undermine their adult children\u2019s choices &#8211; from partners to parenting to careers &#8211; to assert dominance.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comparing_Siblings_or_Friends_Unfavorably\"><\/span>Comparing Siblings or Friends Unfavorably<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers pit their children against each other or compare them negatively to friends and broader social expectations to to shame them into compliance.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ruining_Important_Events\"><\/span>Ruining Important Events<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Major milestones like graduations, weddings, childbirths are prime opportunities for narcissistic mothers to make events about themselves through tantrums, silent treatment, threats of absence, or other manipulations.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Spreading_Lies_and_Rumors\"><\/span>Spreading Lies and Rumors<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s common for narcissistic mothers to spread lies or exaggerate flaws about their adult children behind their backs as retaliation or to gain sympathy.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gaslighting\"><\/span>Gaslighting<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers deny or minimize past abuse, invalidate emotions, and distort facts to disorient their adult children and evade accountability.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bargaining_and_Dealmaking\"><\/span>Bargaining and Dealmaking<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Gifts, money and other enticements may be offered by narcissistic mothers to incentivize contact. But the \u201cgifts\u201d usually come with strings attached.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hoovering\"><\/span>Hoovering<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>After a period of silent treatment or withholding affection, narcissistic mothers \u201choover\u201d their estranged adult child back in by feigning remorse, paying compliments, etc, only to eventually revert back to old patterns.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_You_Were_the_Scapegoat_or_Golden_Child_of_a_Narcissistic_Mother\"><\/span>Signs You Were the Scapegoat or Golden Child of a Narcissistic Mother<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Children are assigned specific roles in narcissistic family systems. Recognizing whether you were the scapegoat or golden child can bring clarity:<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_You_Were_the_Scapegoat\"><\/span>Signs You Were the Scapegoat:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Singled out for blame and criticism<\/li>\n<li>Held to higher expectations than sibling(s)<\/li>\n<li>Punished more harshly for normal mistakes<\/li>\n<li>Parentified &#8211; acted as emotional caretaker for mother<\/li>\n<li>The truth-teller &#8211; labeled as difficult for calling out problems<\/li>\n<li>Emotionally neglected or overtly rejected<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Signs_You_Were_the_Golden_Child\"><\/span>Signs You Were the Golden Child:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Put on a pedestal, praised excessively<\/li>\n<li>Used as a surrogate partner or best friend by the mother<\/li>\n<li>Represented as superior to the scapegoat sibling<\/li>\n<li>Spoiled with extra gifts and privileges<\/li>\n<li>Pressured intensely to meet mother&#8217;s expectations<\/li>\n<li>Scapegoated if fail to provide enough narcissistic supply<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Accepting your assigned role allows for greater understanding. Neither the scapegoat nor golden child escaped unscathed from the dynamics with a narcissistic mother.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_Sons_of_Narcissistic_Mothers_Struggle_with_Relationships_and_Setting_Boundaries_as_Adults\"><\/span>How Sons of Narcissistic Mothers Struggle with Relationships and Setting Boundaries as Adults<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Sons of narcissistic mothers face unique challenges forging healthy relationships in adulthood, due to engulfment and emasculation by their mothers. Common effects include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Difficulty <a title=\"How To Set Healthy Boundaries In Your Relationships\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/codependency\/how-to-set-healthy-boundaries-in-your-relationships\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">setting healthy boundaries<\/a> with partners<\/li>\n<li>Enabling unhealthy <a title=\"How do you cure codependency? Recovery Treatment Overcome Relationship Behavior\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/codependency\/how-do-you-cure-codependency-recovery-treatment-overcome-relationship-behavior\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">behaviors in relationships<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Fear of intimacy or commitment<\/li>\n<li>Emotional numbing or dissociation during sex<\/li>\n<li>Feelings of anger or resentment towards women<\/li>\n<li>Objectifying or seeking validation from female partners<\/li>\n<li>Development of addictions or compulsive behaviors<\/li>\n<li>Alternating between people-pleasing and aggression<\/li>\n<li>Assuming either domineering or submissive roles<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Therapy can help sons of narcissistic mothers overcome negative relationship patterns, establish boundaries, and embrace healthy masculinity. Forgiveness of the mother is a vital part of the healing process.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Confronting_a_Narcissistic_Mother_About_Her_Toxic_Behavior_and_Its_Impact_on_You\"><\/span>Confronting a Narcissistic Mother About Her Toxic Behavior and Its Impact on You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Confronting a narcissistic mother about her abuse requires careful consideration regarding goals and potential consequences. Here are some guidelines:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Set clear intentions. Is it to resolve pain, seek accountability, or establish boundaries? Don&#8217;t expect real change in her.<\/li>\n<li>Prepare for gaslighting, denial, retaliation. She&#8217;ll likely turn it around on you. Recognize her reactivity as a symptom of her disorder.<\/li>\n<li>Consider bringing a therapist or supportive partner. Input from others can weaken her ability to distort reality.<\/li>\n<li>Stick to &#8220;I feel&#8230;&#8221; statements to avoid provoking defensiveness. Describe your experience, not her behaviors.<\/li>\n<li>Limit expectations of an apology or validation; it may never come. Focus instead on speaking your truth.<\/li>\n<li>Have exit strategies in place as the discussion could quickly escalate given her fragile ego.<\/li>\n<li>Establish any personal boundaries moving forward. Be prepared to immediately enforce them.<\/li>\n<li>Get professional help processing the confrontation aftermath. EMDR, somatic therapies, etc can help integrate traumatic memories.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While confronting narcissistic mothers can be emotionally draining, the empowerment and healing make it worthwhile. 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