{"id":2774,"date":"2023-08-15T04:15:17","date_gmt":"2023-08-15T04:15:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/?p=2774"},"modified":"2023-08-15T04:36:20","modified_gmt":"2023-08-15T04:36:20","slug":"narcissistic-mothers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/","title":{"rendered":"Narcissistic Mothers"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_55 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\" role=\"button\"><label for=\"item-67803511e5be1\" ><span class=\"\"><span style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: 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ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Narcissistic_Mothers\" title=\"Narcissistic Mothers\">Narcissistic Mothers<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-2'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#How_does_a_narcissistic_mother_behave\" title=\"How does a narcissistic mother behave?\">How does a narcissistic mother behave?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_do_narcissistic_mothers_do_to_their_daughters\" title=\"What do narcissistic mothers do to their daughters?\">What do narcissistic mothers do to their daughters?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a 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class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Do_narcissistic_mothers_love_you\" title=\"Do narcissistic mothers love you?\">Do narcissistic mothers love you?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#How_do_you_outsmart_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"How do you outsmart a narcissistic mother?\">How do you outsmart a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Can_a_narcissistic_mother_be_nice\" title=\"Can a narcissistic mother be nice?\">Can a narcissistic mother be nice?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Is_My_Mom_narcissistic_or_Borderline\" title=\"Is My Mom narcissistic or Borderline?\">Is My Mom narcissistic or Borderline?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_is_the_psychology_behind_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"What is the psychology behind a narcissistic mother?\">What is the psychology behind a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_is_the_pain_of_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"What is the pain of a narcissistic mother?\">What is the pain of a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#How_do_female_narcissists_treat_their_children\" title=\"How do female narcissists treat their children?\">How do female narcissists treat their children?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_kind_of_childhood_creates_a_narcissist\" title=\"What kind of childhood creates a narcissist?\">What kind of childhood creates a narcissist?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Summary_Table_of_Narcissistic_Mother_Behaviors\" title=\"Summary Table of Narcissistic Mother Behaviors\">Summary Table of Narcissistic Mother Behaviors<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_are_some_tips_for_coping_with_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"What are some tips for coping with a narcissistic mother?\">What are some tips for coping with a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-17\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_happens_when_a_narcissist%E2%80%99s_child_becomes_successful\" title=\"What happens when a narcissist&#8217;s child becomes successful?\">What happens when a narcissist&#8217;s child becomes successful?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-18\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#How_does_having_a_narcissistic_mother_affect_relationships\" title=\"How does having a narcissistic mother affect relationships?\">How does having a narcissistic mother affect relationships?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-19\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_happens_when_you_walk_away_from_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"What happens when you walk away from a narcissistic mother?\">What happens when you walk away from a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-20\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#FAQ\" title=\"FAQ\">FAQ<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3'><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-21\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#How_do_narcissistic_mothers_differ_from_loving_mothers\" title=\"How do narcissistic mothers differ from loving mothers?\">How do narcissistic mothers differ from loving mothers?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-22\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Can_a_narcissistic_mother_become_self-aware_and_change\" title=\"Can a narcissistic mother become self-aware and change?\">Can a narcissistic mother become self-aware and change?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-23\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_is_the_best_way_to_communicate_with_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"What is the best way to communicate with a narcissistic mother?\">What is the best way to communicate with a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-24\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Should_you_maintain_a_relationship_with_a_narcissistic_mother\" title=\"Should you maintain a relationship with a narcissistic mother?\">Should you maintain a relationship with a narcissistic mother?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-25\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#Can_narcissistic_mothers_get_better_with_age\" title=\"Can narcissistic mothers get better with age?\">Can narcissistic mothers get better with age?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-26\" href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mothers\/#What_causes_narcissistic_personality_disorder\" title=\"What causes narcissistic personality disorder?\">What causes narcissistic personality disorder?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Narcissistic_Mothers\"><\/span>Narcissistic Mothers<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_does_a_narcissistic_mother_behave\"><\/span>How does a narcissistic mother behave?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A narcissistic mother often exhibits the following behaviors:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Requires constant praise and admiration from her children<\/li>\n<li>Takes credit for her children&#8217;s achievements<\/li>\n<li>Minimizes or dismisses her children&#8217;s needs<\/li>\n<li>Views her children as extensions of herself<\/li>\n<li>Engages in manipulative behaviors to get her needs met<\/li>\n<li>Lacks empathy and the ability to nurture her children emotionally<\/li>\n<li>Reacts with rage or devaluation if challenged or defied<\/li>\n<li>Cultivates unhealthy competition between siblings<\/li>\n<li>Sabotages her children&#8217;s independence and demands loyalty<\/li>\n<li>Feels entitled to special treatment from her children<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Overall, a narcissistic mother is self-absorbed, controlling, and unable to put her children&#8217;s needs above her own desires for admiration, exceptional treatment, and obedience. Her children exist to serve her needs first. She lacks the ability to genuinely love or empathize with her children.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_do_narcissistic_mothers_do_to_their_daughters\"><\/span>What do narcissistic mothers do to their daughters?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Narcissistic mothers often treat their daughters in the following psychologically damaging ways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Engage in competition with them over beauty, desirability, and achievements<\/li>\n<li>Criticize their appearance and bodies as never being good enough<\/li>\n<li>Take credit for their talents, skills, and accomplishments<\/li>\n<li>Minimize or humiliate their needs, desires, and feelings<\/li>\n<li>Use guilt, shame, and conditional love as manipulation tactics<\/li>\n<li>Sabotage their individuation and independence<\/li>\n<li>Project high expectations but offer little praise or support<\/li>\n<li>Foster unhealthy sibling rivalries for the mother&#8217;s affection<\/li>\n<li>Make their daughters feel responsible for the mother&#8217;s emotional well-being<\/li>\n<li>Swing between seeing daughters as perfect extensions of self or total failures<\/li>\n<li>Exhibit envy and jealousy of youth and potential<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The result of such <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/how-to-handle-narcissistic-abuse\/\" title=\"How To Handle Narcissistic Abuse\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic abuse<\/a> from mothers often leads daughters to struggle with poor self-esteem, perfectionism, body image issues, and difficulties forming healthy relationships.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Does_a_narcissistic_mother_love_her_children\"><\/span>Does a narcissistic mother love her children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/does-a-narcissistic-mother-love-her-children\/\" title=\"Does a Narcissistic Mother Love Her Children?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Narcissistic mothers are largely incapable of genuinely loving their children<\/a> in a healthy way, because narcissists fundamentally lack empathy. While a narcissistic mother may believe she loves her children and experience feelings of possessiveness, the love is inherently selfish rather than nurturing. Some key signs of the limited nature of a narcissistic mother&#8217;s &#8220;love&#8221; include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Love is conditional and contingent on meeting her demanding expectations<\/li>\n<li>children are loved mainly as sources of validation and admiration<\/li>\n<li>Love is expressed via material gifts and successes she can take credit for<\/li>\n<li>Children&#8217;s needs or interests are dismissed if unrelated to her own<\/li>\n<li>Independence and individuation are viewed as threats or betrayals<\/li>\n<li>Praising her children is only done if she earns reflected glory<\/li>\n<li>Love is withheld via guilt, shame, and emotional blackmail when upset<\/li>\n<li>Her love focuses on how the children make her look to others<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While a narcissistic mother expresses a self-centered version of love, the children experience the effects as lacking in care, empathy, support, respect, and genuine acceptance.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_are_the_victims_of_narcissistic_mothers\"><\/span>What are the victims of narcissistic mothers?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The victims of narcissistic mothers are first and foremost the children, who are profoundly affected by being raised with little authentic love, validation, consistency, or emotional warmth. Some common outcomes for children of narcissistic mothers include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Poor self-esteem and lack of identity outside of the mother<\/li>\n<li>People-pleasing and perfectionistic behaviors<\/li>\n<li>Depression, anxiety disorders, and greater risk for substance abuse<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/codependency\/are-you-a-people-pleaser-or-codependent-recovery-treatment-overcome-relationship-behavior\/\" title=\"Are you a People Pleaser or CoDependent?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Codependent relationships<\/a> later in life<\/li>\n<li>Difficulty trusting others and forming healthy relationships<\/li>\n<li>Constant feelings of being &#8220;not good enough&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Persistent guilt, shame, and feelings of obligation<\/li>\n<li>Development of <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/narcissists-major-weaknesses-and-insecurities-the-complex-personality-trait-of-narcissism\/\" title=\"Narcissist&#8217;s major Weaknesses and Insecurities &#8211; The Complex Personality Trait of Narcissism:\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic traits or borderline personality<\/a> disorder<\/li>\n<li>Post-traumatic stress and struggle with setting boundaries<\/li>\n<li>Inability to accept love or kindness from others<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The spouse of a narcissistic mother can also be victimized, as narcissists resent perceived competition for time, energy, and attention. Siblings may be pitted against each other. However, the <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/attachment-style\/do-narcissistic-marriages-last-xnarcabuse\/\" title=\"Do Narcissistic Marriages Last? #XNarcAbuse\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissist&#8217;s children bear the greatest wounds that last<\/a> throughout adulthood.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_recognize_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>How do you recognize a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Some <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/narcissistic-mother-traits-signs-how-to-cope-and-deal\/\" title=\"Narcissistic Mother Traits- Signs &#8211; How to Cope and Deal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">signs that may indicate a mother has narcissistic traits:<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She is hyper focused on her appearance and craves compliments on her looks<\/li>\n<li>She criticizes her children frequently and minimizes their feelings<\/li>\n<li>She competes with her daughter regarding beauty, accomplishments, and male attention<\/li>\n<li>She invades the privacy of her children and makes choices for them<\/li>\n<li>She takes credit for her children&#8217;s talents and successes as her own<\/li>\n<li>Her children&#8217;s main role is to represent the family positively to outsiders<\/li>\n<li>She shows extreme jealousy or rage when her children are independent<\/li>\n<li>She uses emotional blackmail like guilt trips, shame, and conditional love<\/li>\n<li>She is adept at belittling her children or sabotaging their confidence<\/li>\n<li>She demands forgiveness for abusive or inappropriate behavior<\/li>\n<li>Her needs and feelings always take precedence over her children&#8217;s<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>These behaviors indicate the mother lacks empathy and the ability to nurture children in a healthy, supportive way. Seeking help is wise if you grew up subjected to such <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/how-to-leave-a-narcissist-or-abuser\/\" title=\"How To Leave A Narcissist Or Abuser\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic abuse<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do_narcissistic_mothers_love_you\"><\/span>Do narcissistic mothers love you?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It&#8217;s complex to characterize how narcissistic mothers feel towards their children. They may believe they love their children, but it manifests toxically. Some key points:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Their &#8220;love&#8221; is deeply rooted in self-interest rather than genuine care.<\/li>\n<li>Children are sources of validation for their inflated egos and feelings of superiority.<\/li>\n<li>Pride, praise from others, living vicariously are motivators &#8211; not nurturing the child&#8217;s growth.<\/li>\n<li>They feel possessive and entitled to deference from their children.<\/li>\n<li>Conditional love is used as a control tactic via praise, guilt, shame.<\/li>\n<li>They envy and resent their children when independent.<\/li>\n<li>They lack empathy and regard for children&#8217;s feelings and needs.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While narcissistic mothers feel they &#8220;love&#8221; their children, it is fundamentally imbalanced, unstable, and connected to fulfilling their own emotional needs first. Their children rarely feel genuinely loved, accepted, or valued for who they are by their mothers, which takes an immense toll.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_you_outsmart_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>How do you outsmart a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There are some strategies for coping with and setting boundaries with a narcissistic mother:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Recognize you cannot change her behavior &#8211; only how you respond to it.<\/li>\n<li>Do not get drawn into pointless arguments or try to get her to see reason.<\/li>\n<li>Avoid discussing personal life details or confiding in her, as information is ammunition.<\/li>\n<li>Adopt non-defensive responses &#8211; simple statements like &#8220;I&#8217;ll give that some thought.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Limit time spent together and always have an exit plan.<\/li>\n<li>Become financially independent so you have options.<\/li>\n<li>Set clear boundaries and reinforce them consistently.<\/li>\n<li>Get support from others outside the relationship like a therapist.<\/li>\n<li>Make your emotional needs the priority over tending to her moods.<\/li>\n<li>Appreciate her positive traits without idealizing her.<\/li>\n<li>Accept what you realistically can and cannot expect from her.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The key is managing your expectations, creating emotional distance, and disempowering the tactics she uses to manipulate you. With consistency, she learns she cannot exert control as before.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can_a_narcissistic_mother_be_nice\"><\/span>Can a narcissistic mother be nice?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>It is possible but unlikely for a narcissistic mother to demonstrate sustained kindness, because genuine kindness requires empathy. A narcissistic mother can be nice superficially:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She may act very charming and giving when she feels she&#8217;ll be praised or admired.<\/li>\n<li>She can seem thoughtful when she sees it as benefiting herself.<\/li>\n<li>She may be nice when in a positive mood or when things are going her way.<\/li>\n<li>She can appear warm and engaged when others are watching.<\/li>\n<li>Gift-giving designed to impress others may seem nice.<\/li>\n<li>She will be nice if she thinks it will manipulate someone into giving her what she wants.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>However, this niceness is conditional and primarily self-serving. As soon as it ceases to serve her needs, the niceness disappears. True kindness regardless of circumstances tends not to be characteristic of narcissistic mothers, as it requires sincerely caring about someone other than oneself.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_My_Mom_narcissistic_or_Borderline\"><\/span>Is My Mom narcissistic or Borderline?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>There is some overlap in behavior between narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and borderline personality disorder (BPD) moms:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Similarities<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Emotional volatility<\/li>\n<li>Difficulty regulating emotions<\/li>\n<li>Need for control<\/li>\n<li>Manipulative behaviors<\/li>\n<li>Shame and guilt tactics<\/li>\n<li>Fear of abandonment<\/li>\n<li>Overreaction to perceived slights<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Differences<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Narcissistic Mother<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Sense of grandiosity<\/li>\n<li>Lack of empathy<\/li>\n<li>Entitled behaviors<\/li>\n<li>Devaluation of others<\/li>\n<li>Excessive need for admiration<\/li>\n<li>Competitiveness<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Borderline Mother<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Extreme mood swings<\/li>\n<li>Unstable sense of self<\/li>\n<li>Intense unstable relationships<\/li>\n<li>Self-sabotage<\/li>\n<li>Chronic <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/thyself\/i-feel-empty-how-to-overcome-feelings-of-emptiness\/\" title=\"I Feel Empty: How To Overcome Feelings Of Emptiness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">feelings of emptiness<\/a><\/li>\n<li>Self-harming behaviors<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A professional evaluation is needed for an accurate diagnosis. The core distinction is that narcissistic mothers have an inflated sense of self, while borderline mothers struggle with a fragmented one. But both can deeply damage a child&#8217;s psyche.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_the_psychology_behind_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>What is the psychology behind a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Several psychological factors contribute to the development of <a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/relationships\/narcissistic-mother\/how-does-a-narcissistic-mother-behave-dealing-with-a-narcissistic-mother-the-impact-and-how-to-heal\/\" title=\"How Does a Narcissistic Mother Behave? Dealing With a Narcissistic Mother &#8211; The Impact and How to Heal\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">narcissistic traits in mothers:<\/a><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Lack of secure attachment in childhood, leading to dismissiveness and avoidance of emotional intimacy.<\/li>\n<li>Over-evaluation by parents for qualities like beauty or talent, causing a sense of entitlement.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/thyselftherapy.com\/narcissistic-personality-disorder\/symptoms-of-narcissistic-victim-syndrome\/what-is-childhood-trauma\/\" title=\"What Is Childhood Trauma?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Childhood trauma<\/a> like abuse or neglect, resulting in arrested emotional development.<\/li>\n<li>Learned manipulative behaviors to protect a fragile self-esteem.<\/li>\n<li>Underlying feelings of shame and inadequacy that require external validation.<\/li>\n<li>Envying others and devaluing them to shore up grandiose self-image.<\/li>\n<li>Deficient ability to self-reflect or take accountability for mistakes.<\/li>\n<li>Emotional immaturity and lack of identity apart from external achievements or appearances.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The core psychology underlying narcissistic mothers is a poorly developed self-concept that relies on external praise, perfectionism, control tactics, and avoiding emotional depth to project a confident, superior image. Their self-worth depends deeply on validation from others.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_the_pain_of_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>What is the pain of a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>While narcissistic mothers inflict immense pain on others, they paradoxically also suffer their own psychological pain:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Feeling fundamentally inadequate and empty beneath the bravado.<\/li>\n<li>Intense jealousy toward others who don&#8217;t need constant external validation.<\/li>\n<li>Hypersensitivity to criticism that jeopardizes their superior facade.<\/li>\n<li>Deep shame over relying so heavily on outward personas for self-worth.<\/li>\n<li>Isolation from the inability to form authentic intimate connections.<\/li>\n<li>Exhaustion from constantly seeking validation through impressing others.<\/li>\n<li>Fear of being exposed as a fraud and losing love or status.<\/li>\n<li>Sadness that their children feel so distant or resentful of them.<\/li>\n<li>A gnawing awareness something is missing within themselves.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Despite their grandiose projection, deep down narcissistic mothers often harbor feelings of melancholy, loneliness, emptiness, and fragility that even they cannot fully confront. Their &#8220;pain body&#8221; runs very deep.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_female_narcissists_treat_their_children\"><\/span>How do female narcissists treat their children?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Female narcissistic mothers often treat their children in psychologically harmful ways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>They see their kids as extensions of themselves rather than separate individuals.<\/li>\n<li>They take credit for their children&#8217;s achievements and talents.<\/li>\n<li>They demand admiration and exceptional treatment from their children.<\/li>\n<li>They react with rage or devaluation if their children disagree with them.<\/li>\n<li>They use shame, guilt, and conditional love to control their children.<\/li>\n<li>They envy or invalidate their children once independent.<\/li>\n<li>They compare children unfavorably or foster unhealthy competition between them.<\/li>\n<li>They make their children responsible for regulating their emotions.<\/li>\n<li>They demand forgiveness for their hurtful behaviors without real change.<\/li>\n<li>They prioritize their own desires and needs above their children&#8217;s.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In essence, narcissistic mothers relate to their children as sources of validation for themselves, rather than human beings with their own feelings and agency. This causes significant psychological damage.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_kind_of_childhood_creates_a_narcissist\"><\/span>What kind of childhood creates a narcissist?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Certain common childhood factors appear to foster the development of narcissistic traits:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Having parents who over-indulge a child and instill a sense of entitlement.<\/li>\n<li>Growing up as the favorite or &#8220;golden&#8221; child who internalizes special status.<\/li>\n<li>Exposure to caregivers who are narcissistic themselves and model manipulative behaviors.<\/li>\n<li>Having parents who selectively praise accomplishments but ignore or criticize emotions and vulnerability.<\/li>\n<li>Being punished or neglected for expressing difficult emotions like anger, sadness, or fear.<\/li>\n<li>Over-focus on achievements, status, beauty, and external validation as conditional for love.<\/li>\n<li>Trauma like abuse or neglect by parents, causing arrested emotional development.<\/li>\n<li>Instability and uncertainty in childhood that creates a fragile sense of self.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Narcissistic traits emerge as coping mechanisms to compensate for issues like insecurity, feelings of inadequacy, and lack of parental empathy during childhood.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Summary_Table_of_Narcissistic_Mother_Behaviors\"><\/span>Summary Table of Narcissistic Mother Behaviors<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<table>\n<thead>\n<tr>\n<th>Common Behavioral Patterns<\/th>\n<th>Possible Motivations<\/th>\n<th>Effects on Children<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>Need for excessive admiration<\/td>\n<td>Desire to bolster fragile self-esteem<\/td>\n<td>Child feels like an accessory<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Vicarious living through children<\/td>\n<td>Envy of child&#8217;s potential<\/td>\n<td>Impedes individuation<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Manipulation and emotional blackmail<\/td>\n<td>Sense of entitlement; fear of losing control<\/td>\n<td>Anxiety, poor boundaries<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>Competitiveness and comparison<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_are_some_tips_for_coping_with_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>What are some tips for coping with a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Some suggestions for coping with a narcissistic mother include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Seek counseling or join a support group to validate your experiences.<\/li>\n<li>Set clear boundaries and limit contact if needed for your mental health.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t take her criticisms personally &#8211; they reflect her issues, not you.<\/li>\n<li>Give up on changing her fundamentally and focus on self-care.<\/li>\n<li>Guard your privacy and limit information you share.<\/li>\n<li>Have realistic expectations of what she can offer as a mother.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t react to guilt trips or other manipulation &#8211; detach emotionally.<\/li>\n<li>Find validation from other healthy relationships.<\/li>\n<li>Accept that her love may always feel conditional.<\/li>\n<li>Let go of resentment and forgive on your own terms to find peace.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The key is realizing her narcissism is not your burden to fix. Your responsibility is learning resilience and finding ways for her disorder to impact you less going forward.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_happens_when_a_narcissist%E2%80%99s_child_becomes_successful\"><\/span>What happens when a narcissist&#8217;s child becomes successful?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When a narcissistic mother&#8217;s child becomes successful, some common behaviors may emerge:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She takes credit for the child&#8217;s accomplishments.<\/li>\n<li>She lives vicariously through the child&#8217;s achievements.<\/li>\n<li>She brags about the child&#8217;s success to garner admiration for herself.<\/li>\n<li>She demands exceptional treatment because of the child&#8217;s status.<\/li>\n<li>She resents not being the center of attention anymore.<\/li>\n<li>She belittles the child&#8217;s success out of envy.<\/li>\n<li>She uses guilt and shame if the child doesn&#8217;t pay her enough attention.<\/li>\n<li>She fears losing the ability to control the now-successful child.<\/li>\n<li>She becomes jealous and hypercritical of the child.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Rather than sincere pride and support, the narcissistic mother often responds to their child&#8217;s success with envy, destabilizing behaviors, and a loss of the power dynamics she depends on. Their success highlights her inadequacies.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_does_having_a_narcissistic_mother_affect_relationships\"><\/span>How does having a narcissistic mother affect relationships?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Having a narcissistic mother can profoundly impact someone&#8217;s adult relationships in ways like:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Difficulty trusting partners and doubting sincerity of affection<\/li>\n<li>Staying overly loyal in unhealthy relationships<\/li>\n<li>Pattern of being drawn to narcissistic romantic partners<\/li>\n<li>Feeling unworthy of love and attuned connections<\/li>\n<li>People-pleasing and fear of asserting needs<\/li>\n<li>Feeling anxious about being abandoned or betrayed<\/li>\n<li>Minimizing own feelings and emotions to avoid conflict<\/li>\n<li>Catastrophizing perceived criticisms or slights from partners<\/li>\n<li>Taking excessive blame for relationship problems<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Children of narcissistic mothers often struggle with insecure attachment styles and complex trauma that can undermine forming secure relationships in adulthood. Therapy helps overcome this challenging legacy.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_happens_when_you_walk_away_from_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>What happens when you walk away from a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When someone chooses to distance themselves or go no contact with a narcissistic mother, some common reactions include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>She rages, guilt trips, and gaslights to get you to return.<\/li>\n<li>She smears you as flawed, crazy, or ungrateful to others.<\/li>\n<li>She harasses you through calls, texts, stalking, or threats.<\/li>\n<li>She uses flying monkeys and triangulation to manipulate.<\/li>\n<li>She plays the victim role and seeks sympathy and support.<\/li>\n<li>She makes grand gestures of generosity or affection.<\/li>\n<li>She alternates between attacking and love-bombing.<\/li>\n<li>She threatens self-harm or makes fabricated health crises.<\/li>\n<li>She pretends the estrangement isn&#8217;t happening.<\/li>\n<li>She smears or retaliates against your loved ones.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Walking away destabilizes the dysfunctional dynamics the narcissistic mother depends on. She will use every tactic to regain control, so no contact requires strict boundaries.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FAQ\"><\/span>FAQ<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_narcissistic_mothers_differ_from_loving_mothers\"><\/span>How do narcissistic mothers differ from loving mothers?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Loving mothers nurture unconditionally, empathize, allow independence, accept flaws, support emotional needs, apologize for mistakes, and prioritize the child&#8217;s well-being. Narcissistic mothers only conditionally &#8220;love&#8221; as it suits their own needs.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can_a_narcissistic_mother_become_self-aware_and_change\"><\/span>Can a narcissistic mother become self-aware and change?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It is possible but exceedingly rare for a narcissistic mother to develop true self-awareness and engage in the challenging personal growth work required to fundamentally change and develop capacity for empathy, vulnerability, and unconditional caring.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_is_the_best_way_to_communicate_with_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>What is the best way to communicate with a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Use simple, direct statements without emotions. Avoid JADE (justify, argue, defend, explain). Keep topics superficial. Expect manipulation and know you cannot make her understand your perspective or feelings. Boundaries will be constantly tested.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Should_you_maintain_a_relationship_with_a_narcissistic_mother\"><\/span>Should you maintain a relationship with a narcissistic mother?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>It depends on the severity of her behaviors and your ability to detach and establish boundaries that limit harm to your mental health. For some, low contact or structured contact is feasible. Others may need to go fully no contact for self-preservation.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Can_narcissistic_mothers_get_better_with_age\"><\/span>Can narcissistic mothers get better with age?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Personality disorders tend to moderate slightly with age, but core traits and behaviors usually remain pronounced. The sense of grandiosity and entitlement narcissistic mothers demonstrate tends to be lifelong, rather than something outgrown.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_causes_narcissistic_personality_disorder\"><\/span>What causes narcissistic personality disorder?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Research points to a combination of biological factors, childhood trauma, overly permissive or harsh parenting, family dynamics focused on shame and appearances rather than emotional needs, and cultural influences that foster issues like entitlement, superficiality, and fragile self-esteem at the root.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Narcissistic Mothers How does a narcissistic mother behave? 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